Marriage is a funny thing.
It’s something you dream about when you are single, longing for that special someone to come into your life.
When they do, it is butterflies and roses up until the moment you walk down that aisle.
Even the honeymoon stage is wonderful.
Then, reality hits.
You work odd job hours. Kids join the picture. Before you know it, your marriage has become a little…dull. (Don’t worry, I won’t tell your spouse you said so.)
Let me tell you a little secret: you are not alone.
It’s true. Most couples feel a little like the shine has worn off in their marriage. The sparkle is no longer there and instead, has been replaced by a dull luster.
I have good news for you! I want to tell you the trick for 30 Seconds that will transform your marriage.
The funny thing is, you already know about it. You just stopped doing it. Or forgot about it.
Here it is:
That’s it? That’s the big trick?
But before you go away feeling like you’ve been ripped off, let me add a little note to that.
You need to kiss your spouse for at least ten seconds…three times a day.
(Some people might call that making out, others just call it a long kiss, I call it FUN homework!)
Remember when you used to love making out with your spouse? Is that still present in your marriage? If not, then I challenge you today. Here is my challenge:
Commit for a week, to kiss your spouse for at least ten seconds, three times a day. If you happen to catch yourself kissing for longer than that, well…that’s okay, too!
I can pretty much guarantee you that this one little trick will transform a dull marriage into one with SPARK!
What do you think? Is this challenge doable? Is this something you can commit to make your marriage better?
If you liked this post, you will probably like this other post about how to KISS in marriage (it’s not what you would expect).